A guide to black-tie dress code for women

For men, a black-tie invitation means just one thing: the tuxedo. For women, however, it’s a dress code that can be interpreted much more broadly, which is why it can feel daunting. Rather than worrying about getting it 'right', take our tips and embrace the opportunity to have a little fun getting dressed up to the nines. 

What is black tie for women?
When you see this term on an invitation, it’s asking that everyone don elegant and refined eveningwear. Your hosts are essentially ensuring that guests make a suitable level of effort, rather than showing up to a special event in clothes that are too casual or business-like.

Still uncertain about what that looks like? Read on for expert tips that’ll see you making an entrancing entrance.

Rather than allow the countdown to a formal event to cause you to panic and make an impulse buy, make time in your diary specifically to seek out a black-tie outfit. Discovering eveningwear that makes you feel like a more fabulous version of yourself is the surest way it’ll be worn again for a wedding or party.

If in doubt, rent it. John Lewis’ Fashion Rental is the fast, fuss-free and super-affordable way to wow. Simply choose a designer frock, select how long you’d like to keep it and get ready for that unboxing dopamine hit when it arrives. The fact the service is more budget-conscious and eco-friendly than buying new each time makes it all the more magical. 

Whether a wedding or an upmarket social occasion, you might wonder what’s appropriate to wear to a black-tie event? While a long dress – one with a hemline below the knee – is typically the go-to choice, anything floor-sweeping will create an impact. That means eternally-elegant jumpsuits and flowing palazzo pants are equally suitable options. If you choose the latter, be sure to pick an equally dressy top or blazer to complete the look. 

For show-stopping black-tie style, take the opportunity to embrace eye-catching colour. Experiment with hues that suit your skin and hair tone, and make a statement. 

Of course, if you're not confident with colour, nothing is more versatile than a midi-length black dress. If you do go classic in tone, be brave and bold with accessories – think statement earrings or sparkly shoes.

Think about your invitation carefully, as this will inform your choice of eveningwear. Are you attending a dinner, a gala, a wedding or a party? Some events lend themselves to a voluminous or sculptural silhouette, but for a sit-down meal you’ll probably want something streamlined yet not restrictive. 

For a wedding, full-length evening attire means you can forgo a hat. If the event is in the height of summer, the hemline rules can be lifted a little; have fun (and keep your cool) with a suitably chic minidress. If there’s a strong likelihood you'll be standing around outside, sleeves are a good option. And, if you’re attending a festive party, you’ve got the perfect excuse to wear sequins. 

Your jacket will be the first thing anyone sees when you arrive at your black-tie event, yet it’s likely to be the last thing you think about when planning your outfit. Invest in a chic top layer that will serve you time and again, such as a classic blazer. 

The shoes you choose depend on what suits your dress or jumpsuit, but also bear the location in mind – stilettos and grass are famously not friends, so opt for a block heel if you’re attending an outdoor event.

It’s not every day you get to go all-out on the glamour front, so embrace the chance to wear some dazzling accessories, such as earrings, brooches or a statement necklace – costume jewellery is absolutely encouraged.

Ensure you finish your black-tie outfit with an elegant clutch or this timeless feather-trim bag for your essentials. However, do note: the etiquette experts at Debrett’s decree that tiaras are, alas, not black-tie appropriate, so leave those in the dressing-up box at home.