What to wear to a wedding

First up, check the invite for any mention of a dress code, such as black tie. There are fewer fashion rules for weddings these days, so it’s likely that you’ll have the freedom to wear whatever you like - however there are still a few things to remember.

Make sure you consider the ceremony venue and location. For some religious ceremonies it’s respectful to have covered shoulders, and a seriously plunging neckline might not be appropriate - if in doubt lean towards modesty. Play it safe with a sleeved dress, or simply throw a shawl or cardigan over a strappy frock for that part of the celebrations.

White is obviously off limits, as well as creams, off-whites and anything too bridal - unless you want to draw gasps for all the wrong reasons. Think twice before wearing black, which can be the antithesis of party vibes, unless you’re heavily accessorising with other colours. 

A jumpsuit or a patterned or print dress are safe bets to avoid matching the wedding party, because no one wants to turn up accidentally looking like a bonus bridesmaid.

 If in doubt, ask the hosts about the colour palette to figure out what shades to avoid. Then you can feel confident choosing a neutral such as gold, soft pink or brown, or a vibrant rainbow shade. 

It can be easy to misinterpret the freedom to wear ‘anything’ as ‘anything goes’, and end up looking too casual. The golden rule is don’t go too low-key - it’s always better to be overdressed.

That doesn’t mean you have to go for a ballgown and skyscraper heels, but it does mean making an effort; T-shirts, trainers, jeans and athleisure are no-nos. If you want to invest in something you’ll wear again, try a more everyday-style dress. Boden’s Amelie dress is super easy to wear (it even has pockets…) and add block heels plus a fab bag and accessories for the big day, then style with trainers and a slouchy shirt for years to come. Still unsure? Ask friends what they're wearing because there’s safety in numbers, or book a free appointment with a John Lewis stylist to help find what suits you best.

British weather can be unpredictable – it is what it is. Even if the wedding is in August, you do need plan for every eventuality. If it’s likely that you’re going to want a cover-up, such as a jacket or cardigan, try to consider it when building the rest of your outfit to ensure a seamless look. A duster coat suits anything from a shorter wedding guest dress to a midi dress to a jumpsuit, while faux-fur styles are a great option for cooler temperatures.

It’s also worth noting that if you choose chic tailored separates rather than a dress, you automatically have a wedding-appropriate blazer to keep you warm during the outdoor photo call. 

First, consider the location. Is it a city wedding, a beach ceremony or a vineyard venue? Next, think about how hot it could be. Try to plan your outfit aligned to these factors and you’ll not only nail fitting in with everyone else but also ensure you feel comfortable. Often weddings abroad mean guests can choose relaxed style, but unless it says so in the invite, avoid anything ultra-casual. Chic separates are spot on for an urban wedding, especially in lighter natural fabrics such as cotton and linen. 

An easy-breezy, floaty midi or maxi dress is forever on-trend, and a great way to heatwave-proof your outfit. Off-the-shoulder Bardot-style dresses are another great choice. Remember, overly tight-fitting clothes tend to be less forgiving in warmer weather, so anything that allows air to circulate is a big win.

If it’s going to be sandy - or grassy, for that matter - think carefully about footwear. Heels are a no-go, but if you still want some height try a wedge.