Read on for tips and stylish outfits for wedding guests, whatever the dress code
A wedding invitation can induce several feelings simultaneously – happiness and excitement, sure, but also some trepidation about what to wear. You’ll need occasionwear that you feel great in and which effortlessly takes you from daytime mingling to late-night dancefloor action. Here’s what to wear to a wedding when you’re not part of the core wedding party.
What is the dress code for a wedding guest?
Check the invite for any mention of a dress code. There are fewer fashion rules for weddings these days, so it’s likely that you’ll have the freedom to wear whatever you like – however there are still things to consider, such as the venue. For some religious ceremonies it’s respectful to have covered shoulders, and a plunging neckline might not be appropriate. If in doubt, lean towards modesty with a sleeved dress or a chic trouser suit.
What colours should not be worn to a wedding?
White and cream are obviously off limits, unless you want to draw gasps for all the wrong reasons. Think twice before wearing black, which can be the antithesis of party vibes, unless you’re heavily accessorising with other colours. A jumpsuit or a print dress are safe bets to avoid matching the wedding party, because no one wants to turn up accidentally looking like a bonus bridesmaid. If in doubt, ask the hosts about the colour palette to find out what shades to avoid.
What should you not wear to a wedding?
It can be easy to misinterpret the freedom to wear ‘anything’ as ‘anything goes’, and end up looking too casual. The golden rule is that it is always better to be overdressed. That doesn’t mean you have to go for a ballgown, but it does mean making an effort. If you want to invest in something you’ll wear again, try an everyday-style midi-dress and style-up with block heels. Still unsure? Book a free appointment with a John Lewis stylist to help find what suits you best.
Stick to your own style
It’s easy to get an idea in your head of what wedding guest outfits should look like, then wander far from your usual style. The best advice? Stick to what you’re comfortable in. So, if you’re a jeans and T-shirt kind of person, try smart trousers, a jumpsuit, or a statement co-ord set. If you don’t usually wear heels, there are lots of great occasion flats to choose from.
How to dress for a wedding abroad
First, consider the location. Is it a city, beach or countryside wedding venue? Next, think about how hot it could be. Try to plan your outfit aligned to these factors and you’ll not only fit in with everyone else but also ensure you feel comfortable. Avoid going ultra-casual or anything overly tight-fitting, which tends to be less forgiving in warmer weather. A floaty midi or maxi dress is forever on-trend – and a great way to heatwave-proof your outfit – and a wedge or dressy flats will keep you comfy.
Add statement accessories
As a wedding guest, the worst-case scenario is turning up to see someone else wearing the same outfit as you. One way to avoid this is with bold accessories that add personality and ensure your look is individual. A pop of colour, such as a brightly coloured clutch bag, makes a neutral or monochrome look sparkle. Go all out with statement jewellery, an oversized hair accessory, or a hat or fascinator. Now that hats are less common, they’re real head-turners (pun intended).
Wedding guest outfit rental
Got multiple occasions coming up and don’t want to splurge on buying a new look each time? Check out John Lewis Rental for wow-factor outfits: simply rent, wear and return. You can rent statement dresses, skirts and jumpsuits from luxury brands such as Shrimps, The Vampire's Wife, and Queens of Archive from as little as £15 per day.
Wedding guest inspiration for him
Dress codes for men are usually pretty clear cut. Black tie means sharp tailoring and men’s formal wear. If it’s more relaxed, a classic white button-down with linen suit fits the bill. Got multiple occasions? You can hire a great look from names including Hugo Boss, Charles Tyrwhitt and Gant from John Lewis Rental from just £40.
Formal outfits for kids
They’re wedding scene-stealers, often outlasting everyone on the dancefloor. Involve them in choosing their wedding outfit – whether that’s prints, florals, sparkles, or colours that they love – and make sure that they feel comfy in it. For very little ones have a colouring book and pens handy in case they start to flag.
